心灵鸡汤（单身一族）

　　Welcome to Chicken Soup for the Singles Soul/　For the first time in history，there are more single people than married people in our society. If you are reading this book，it is likely that you have never been married ，or have become divorced or widowed.This is a book that shares the love，the challenges and the unique joys of being single.Whether you are single by choice or by circumstance ，these stories will show you that you are not alone.When we started this book，our intention was to compile a collection of stories that would address the many types of single people　from the twenty year-old never married man or woman，to the fifty-year old divorcee，to the eighty-year old widower. And we discovered that the opportunities and challenges facing this diverse group of people are numerousand often inspiring.For example， we included stories about being Single and Happy　an unprecedented trend in our country. For the firsttime，many people are choosing to remain single for a lifetime -.-something that was almost inconceivable even twenty years ago.On the other hand， its impossible to talk about being single without addressing the desires that so many single people have regarding relationships. Many single people want to have a relationship ，and thats why we have included chapters on Dating and Finding Your Mate.Still others are in the process of letting go of a relation ship orgrieving the loss of a love.The stories in Single A gain deal with rebuilding life after divorce. The stories in Losing a Partner share experiences of healing after the death of a partner.Then there are single parents！ Thirty three percent of all families in the United States are now headed by a single parent. We hope the stories in Single Parenting will touch the hearts of single mothers and fathers everywhere and eneour age them on their journey.One of the most rewarding aspects of working on this book has been discovering the strength and commitment many single people have to making their own lives fulfilling and enriching the lives of others. You will find their stories in our chapter on Making a Difference.We have also included stories about the incredible support available in many ways for single people. In our chapter We Are Not Alone，we see the support that often appears when least expected or in miraculous ways. In the chapter called Friends and Family， we see the power of the support that comes from the deep bonds of family and important friend ships.Finally，theres love. Love is the most powerful force in the universe. While we often think of love in terms of a mar riage or intimate relationship，its very clear that love comes in many forms. And in a world where 50 percent of the population is now single， we recognize that love is not just for those in relationships. In fact，it is the common thread that binds the many different kinds of stories in Chicken Soup for the Singles Soul.So in the spirit of love，we offer this book to single people everywhere. No matter what your circumstance in life as a sing e person，we hope these stor es open your heart and give you a vision of lifes possibilities. May your path be filled with joy and the magical touch of love　wherever you find it.

暂缺《心灵鸡汤（单身一族）》作者简介

Acknowledgments
Introduction
1．SINGLE AND HAPPY
  Room at the Table Vivian Eisenecher
  The Professor and the Soulmate Bryan Aubrey
  Is Fire Goddess Spelled with Two Ds? Linda Stafford
  Lessons from Aunt Grace Nardi Reeder Campion
  Seeing 20/20 Bill Asenjo
  Have Freedom,Will Travel Dawn McKenna
  The Visit C.J.Herrmann
  Fascination with Dree Megan Martin
  I Don't Even Know Your Name Jean C.Fulton
  Surviving the shipwreck   Cara Wilson
2．DATING
  A-Head of the Game   katie Mauro
  bowled Over   Jan coleman
  Reply to Box 222B   Barbara baumgardner
  New Year's Eve Dilemma Judith L.Robinson
  Dave Barry's Guide to finding a Mate 
  On the Rocks 
  A Good Catch
  The Surprise Date
  A Cure for cold Feet 
  Dating Again 
  Loving Henry
  The Last Date 
3. FINDING YOUR MATE
  The Invitation 
  How David and Lily Got Together 
  The Moment It Happens
  The High School English Teacher
  Perennials 
  Hope Is where the heart Is 
  The Letter
  What's Your Sign?
  An Educated Woman 
  Love at First Bite 
  A hance of a Lifetime 
  The Right One 
4．MAKING A DIFFERENCE
5．SINGEL PARENTING
6．SINGLE AGAIN
7．LOSING A PARTNER
8．WE ARE NOT ALONE
9．FRIENDS AND FAMILY